Thanks for all the comments, open minded or closed!  Stimming is no replacement for a sexual relationship... simply a diversion into something different, when time allows.  I spend quite a bit of time away from my gf, so I have time to experiment sexually.  I do not play with other partners, as I am monogomous but that does not me I shut down sexually when I'm by myself.  On the contrary, I explore and play!  She is great and we have an awesome sex life... hot and creative.  But she is private and does not play on cam.

Keep watching... who knows what my wild imagination will come up with next!