Married for 10 years and my husband is fairly reserved but he definitely has a more kinky side if I can get him going enough. It’s the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen in my life. Here in the last 6 months or so I’ve seen him get so turned on he’ll start rubbing his dick while he plays with me and it just drives me fucking bonkers.

The other night we were fooling around and he was pretty laid back and confident so when I went to grab something I told him he better play with himself while I was gone and when I came back he was doing exactly that.

That said, I do think he would be open to the idea of mutual masturbation. But Google is NOT my friend and Reddit is giving nothing as well.

So does anyone have experience with this? And even if you don’t, how would you best like to be approached with this idea? Please help me set the stage and also give any ideas on ways to prevent either of us from getting in our heads about it at any point.

I need this to be as hot/sexy as possible.

I have toys. I have lingerie. I have almost everything I can think of that id need but idk how much effort needs to go into this or what would be considered too much.

Help! Thanks guys!