I've been going out with my girlfriend now for a little over three months, she's an outstanding women and is consistently surprising me not just in bed but in a lot of aspects of her attitude and life. She is divorced, married young and wasn't ready for it, then he cheated on her and didn't want to even try to fix things so she tossed him to the curb. She's had one long term relationship and a handfull of shorter relationships since then.

Now, what has truly astonished me is that in the last 10 years of men, I'm the only one that has acctually taken the time to really work her over in bed. Upon a little bit of investigating and questioning, which she was happy with, it seemed pretty apparent that all the past men for her were wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am kinda guys. Get in, do ur deed, and get out. This just boggles my mind since when I laid with her the first time it was all about her and her orgasm, I knew I would cum so my side of it was easy, but I knew that if I could make her orgasm things would be just that much hotter. Basically, that's how I view all of our encounters, and have never had a complaint....I have gotten the question "Where did you learn to do that?!"  She has been consistently satisfied and surprised, since I've gotten the remark as I'm playing with her after an orgasm "I don't think I'll cum again." which was a lie. Then, one day I was just really curious, which I know this is a double edged sword but, and asked "How many other men have paid attention to you in bed as much as I do?" She thought for a moment and said simply "for as much as you do and as long as you do, none."

All this boils down to what the fuck, serioursly, you men don't take care of your women this much! This beautiful, sexual, sensual,  and willing women has not in all her past relationships been truly pleasured; are you fucking kidding me! Is a talented man in bed truly this hard to find in this world, I thought we have gone through a sexual revolution, do we need another one for every guy that thinks she is really satisfied in just 5 - 10 minutes!

Ok, I understand that der are exceptions to every rule, but the average women takes at least a good 15 minutes to even start to warm up. If this is new information to you maybe you should try to understand the female orgasm a little bit. Same thing if you haven't a clue what or where the clitoris or g-spot is or are.

To every guy that knows how to pleasure thier women more power to you, make sure her head explodes the next time she cums! Remember, were apparently in the minority here.

I really hope some ladies can defend der men her and say they do what they should in bed for ya.